“You need to choose better men!” . . . is the unsolicited advice unfailingly trotted out in the comments section of essays cataloging heterosexual women’s dating experiences. She has a broken picker. Obvs. I recently learned of Facebook forums called “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” and I posted a…

Most single men aren’t looking for a real relationship. Sure, they might claim otherwise, but many aren’t equipped for what women consider “a relationship” and many others nurse an implausible fantasy of a type of “relationship” from which women run screaming, assuming women have energy to muster even a trot…

Lessons for happier, healthier relationships. — Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. …